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The list continues. For the record, none of these messages garnered a response. None of these messages even garnered a half-second's thought of a response. I understand this was a surprise to a number of these messages' authors, because I could see them returning to my profile for days later, checking to see if I'd been online. (Should you haven't gotten the hint yet, online dating is creepy and frightening.) Prior to OkC, I never got the feeling that anyone who was being mean to me was laboring under the impression that doing so would give me a surprising and inexplicable urge to drop my pants. Teasing, certain---where would I be without teasing as flirtation strategy?---but nothing on the amount of the backhanded assholeish-ness that infiltrated my inbox from day one on OkCupid. I felt awful enough going online to date in the very first place, but the inflow of negs made me feel worse. It made me feel like I was not a person, and I estimate to the people sending the messages, I wasn't. I was a profile. Maybe I am being overly sensitive! But the desire to demean someone and the urge to date her are, I believe, mutually exclusive. I really could be wrong about that, however, since I am simply a woman.

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So I am not sorry. I am, nevertheless, interested in the betterment of humankind. I am interested in historical records on a number of the most pressing issues of our time. I'm interested in the group and evaluation of little catastrophes. So I Have thought of a few categories of messages that you're apt to receive should you find yourself being concurrently female and in possession of an online dating profile. May God have mercy on our souls, and may whoever invented the backhanded compliment as flirting strategy (curse you, popular MTV pickup artist Puzzle!) be slowly roasted in a stew of his own fedoras, watched over by the legions of women who need to make an effort to determine why this individual who apparently wants to date them simply called them pretty but not in an intimidating manner."

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Look, I understand it isn't easy out there for guys, either. (Is not it? I think it really could be. Easier, anyway. Less horrifying.) For some reason it may seem like standard operating procedure, among people who have opposite-sex interests, that GUYS message GIRLS and that is that. I believe this is on the way out, but it's lingering. So guys have some pressure---they are the ones who have to make a move" and then simply wait while my buddies and I gasp and laugh and email each other the complete crap they have only sent us. I'd feel awful, except that the authors of the messages that provoke that sort of reaction most definitely do not give a fuck. You know how I know? Because they sent that same exact masturbatory-ass message to me AND two of my buddies. Word. For. Word.

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In a month on OkCupid, I received approximately 130 messages. I say about" because I deleted so many of them instantly (having them sit in my inbox felt contaminating) that I cannot report with scientific precision the precise count. Free Sex Dating Near Me Carway Alberta. I actually don't think this number makes me special. Free sex dating closest to Caslan. I actually believe it makes me decidedly un-specific, because to most of the messages' writers I was clearly no more than one more female-appearing matter who might be intrigued by the flitting brevity of a message reading merely sup?" Everyone was always telling me that, if nothing else, having an online dating profile will be a confidence booster because of all the flattering messages I'd receive.

But that first night was excellent. I 'd myself signed in to chat accidentally, because I did not even recognize it was there. When a small message popped right up in the bottom right hand corner of my screen saying Hello, tall lady," I yelled. I checked out the profile of the guy who had messaged me---tall, dorky, kind of funny---and though I did not locate him all that attractive, I impulsively decided to chat with him anyway. He was a boy who needed to speak to me! On the very first day of online dating, that is sort of all you really desire. I honestly don't even know what we talked about. I believe I was simply overwhelmed by how much it took me back to middle school, flirting (nicely, discussing) with boys on AIM for the first time. It did not matter what he looked like (or what I look like, for that matter), or if we had anything in common, or what we were even talking about. He was a boy. Speaking to me. On the NET.

It did not start out so badly. My buddy Jenna came over on a Wednesday night, because it was February first, and we decided that something like this should occur on a first day of the month. We poured ourselves glasses of wine and set about describing ourselves in the best, most appealing, most unique, most fascinating ways we maybe could. We were truthful, though. Mainly. I mean, yes, technically I am five-eleven and a half, but I'm not going to round up to six feet online, am I? Is this what men are thinking when they list their heights as five-ten even though you know, in your heart, that they're five-seven? But in reverse? Goddammit. This is why online dating is awful.

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