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I actually don't actually desire the experience of dating, I merely need to be with someone who's closer to my own maturity amount than my chronological age. I get along GREAT with people who are like 22-25, but people who are closer to thirty tend to have kept the momentum they built up in the very first place and are a lot further along in life than I am. Keeping in mind, I've ever been a "late bloomer" and I've gotten knocked back to the starting point 3 times now. in lots of means I'm nearer to a 20-21 year old than I 'm to what my DL says my age is.
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well there is some noticeable variability to this of course.. but it is also the reason that 100% of my girlfriends have started out as friends or more especially, women/girls who I spent a LOT of time hanging out around. It eliminated the problematic element of dating for me. If we went out as friends, I didn't mind sometimes paying for them because I 'd do the same for any of my buddies. I guess my point is that I'm still getting something out of the price, I am getting to spend some time using a buddy. The issue I have with dating is that I'm expected to do 100% of the work, and foot 100% of the invoice. I understand this is not consistently the case, but at least in my part of the world it is still very much anticipated. So paying to take 1 girl out on 1 date will cost around 100$ by the time you factor in gas, food, actions, etc. "Free" dates are amazing, but require you to live somewhere where there is actually stuff to do for free.
I am not interested in telling you 'you are incorrect to feel this way', and I can understand wanting to skip past the arduous task of the dating period. Logistically, though, I don't get how that's supposed to work. How will you both decide to enter a committed relationship together in case you don't at least go on a date first? Compatibility on paper, and even being friends with someone, doesn't tell you very much about how you had be as a couple. Most people don't jump right into the committed relationship stage without even going on a date, so that will hinder you that much more (if not completely) if that is your requirement.
Online dating was designed to alleviate this somewhat by letting you bypass a lot of experimentation by being able to read and message folks who were supposedly more predisposed to being your "kind". That of course lead to the GREATEST reason why I can not use online dating. Geographically I am such a square peg in a round hole it removes nearly everyone. The last time that I had an OKCupid page, the great majority of folks had something in the range of a 60% match with me.. so after messaging everyone with a 75% and up.. and getting 2 answers.. which lead no where? I was out of folks to message. The turn over rate was not high enough, and the few women who did message me were so absolutely out of the land of possibilities of acceptable that it was nearly laughable, though I applaud their self esteem!
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My first thought was to just try everything. Which I did. Online dating was part of that. Second I 've really tried to repeatedly give online dating a chance. Why? Mainly because people keep talking about it. You have posts like this one, buddies who try it etc. Third because the sites are quite good at making a sucker of me. Match sends me e-mails regularly telling me 10 women have checked out my profile or that some women have expressed interest. I block these e-mails now because I know Match is evil evil evil.
And I know above you said that you don't comprehend why women are hesitant to give out numbers and I am confident if I clarify it you likely still won't accept it. But considering all the dick pics my buddies have been sent, as well as the harassing stalking messages that go on and on, nicely yup women are wary to hand out their numbers. They are able to block someone far easier on a dating site who begins acting badly. I really do not believe you completely understand what women go through with online dating. It may not be the same kind of frustrations as you do, but I would highly recommend going to tumblr and search the Okcupid label. You will notice that the women post about being harassed and called terrible names and also the dudes post about non-answers. And it can make me shake my head because if the guys would just do as I do and seek that Okcupid label they may learn WHY women don't react. Time and time again a girl will politely reply that she isn't interested and she then gets called a "c" in response. Not replying only becomes the safest method to avoid harassment.
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