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The list continues. For the record, not one of these messages garnered a answer. Not one of these messages even garnered a half-second's thought of a response. I know this was a surprise to many of these messages' writers, since I really could see them returning to my profile for days later, checking to see if I'd been online. (If you haven't gotten the hint yet, online dating is creepy and frightening.) Prior to OkC, I never got the feeling that anyone who was being mean to me was laboring under the belief that doing so would give me a surprising and inexplicable desire to drop my pants. Ribbing, certain---where would I be without teasing as flirtation strategy?---but nothing on the level of the backhanded assholeish-ness that infiltrated my inbox from day one on OkCupid. I felt bad enough going online to date in the very first place, but the influx of negs made me feel worse. It made me feel like I wasn't a man, and I guess to the individuals sending the messages, I was not. I was a profile. Maybe I am being overly sensitive! But the desire to demean someone and the urge to date her are, I think, mutually exclusive. I really could be wrong about that, though, because I'm just a girl.

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So I am not sorry. I 'm, nevertheless, interested in the betterment of humankind. I'm interested in historical records on some of the most pressing issues of our time. I am interested in the grouping and evaluation of small disasters. So I've thought of a few categories of messages that you're apt to receive if you find yourself being simultaneously female and in possession of an internet dating profile. May God have mercy on our souls, and may whoever devised the backhanded compliment as flirting approach (damn you, popular MTV pickup artist Enigma!) be slowly roasted in a stew of his own fedoras, watched over by the legions of women who have to try to determine why this person who ostensibly wants to date them merely called them pretty but not in an intimidating way."

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Look, I understand it's not simple out there for dudes, either. (Isn't it? I think it actually could be. Easier, anyway. Less horrifying.) For some reason it seems like standard operating procedure, among people who have opposite-sex interests, that GUYS message GIRLS and that is that. I believe this is on the way outside, but it is lingering. So guys have some pressure---they're the ones who have to make a move" and then only wait while my buddies and I gasp and laugh and e-mail each other the entire nonsense they have only sent us. I'd feel bad, except that the writers of the messages that provoke that type of reaction most certainly don't give a fuck. You understand how I know? Because they sent that same exact masturbatory-ass message to me AND two of my pals. Word. For. Word.

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In a month on OkCupid, I received around 130 messages. I say about" because I deleted so many of them promptly (having them sit in my inbox felt contaminating) that I cannot report with scientific precision the precise count. Free Sex Dating Near Me Ravine Alberta. I really don't believe this amount makes me special. Free Sex Dating near me Raymond. I actually think it makes me decidedly un-unique, because to many of the messages' authors I was clearly no more than one more female-looking matter who might be intrigued by the flitting brevity of a message reading simply sup?" Everyone was constantly telling me that, if nothing else, having an internet dating profile will be a confidence booster as a result of all the flattering messages I Had receive.

But that first night was fine. I 'd myself signed in to chat inadvertently, because I didn't even realize it was there. When a small message popped up in the bottom right hand corner of my screen saying Hello, tall lady," I shouted. I checked out the profile of the man who'd messaged me---tall, dorky, kind of funny---and though I did not find him all that attractive, I impulsively decided to chat with him anyhow. He was a lad who needed to speak to me! On the very first day of online dating, that's sort of all you actually want. I really don't even understand what we talked about. I think I was simply overwhelmed by how much it took me back to middle school, flirting (well, speaking) with boys on AIM for the very first time. It did not matter what he looked like (or what I look like, for that matter), or if we had anything in common, or what we were even talking about. He was a lad. Speaking to me. On the WEB.

It didn't start out so badly. My friend Jenna came over on a Wednesday night, because it was February first, and we determined that something like this should occur on a first day of the month. We poured ourselves glasses of wine and set about describing ourselves in the best, most appealing, most unique, most intriguing ways we maybe could. We were truthful, however. Largely. I mean, yes, technically I am five-eleven and a half, but I am not going to round up to six feet online, am I? Is this what men are thinking when they list their heights as five-ten even though you understand, in your heart, that they are five-seven? However, in inverse? Goddammit. This really is why online dating is awful.

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