We're wives, mothers, co authors, dating coaches, and have been best friends for the past 30 years. We developed the notion for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City---it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City! Like most women our age, we were career-minded with our own apartments, but we also needed to get married. So over fried tofu and mixed vegetables, we each brought our dating difficulties to the table. We began to see the women who played hard to get, either intentionally or by accident, were the ones who got the guys, while the women who asked men out or were too available were the ones who got dumped. We put two and two together, and composed and composed, and that is how The Rules were born! We had no notion The Rules would eventually be a bestseller... we only wanted to help women quit making mistakes and get the guys of their dreams---and that is what we still do now, 20 years after! Now, Ellen is married with two children and lives in New York, and Sherrie is married with a teenage daughter and lives in New Jersey. Free Sex Dating nearby Cheam View. We did The Rules, wrote The Rules, and have helped millions of women do The Rules, too. Now, we want to help you!
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