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The list continues. For the record, none of these messages garnered a reply. Not one of these messages even garnered a half-second's consideration of a response. I understand this was a surprise to many of these messages' writers, since I could see them returning to my profile for days afterward, checking to see if I Had been online. ( in case you haven't gotten the hint yet, online dating is creepy and frightening.) Prior to OkC, I never got the feeling that anyone who was being mean to me was laboring under the belief that doing so would give me a surprising and inexplicable urge to drop my pants. Teasing, sure---where would I be without teasing as flirtation strategy?---but nothing on the amount of the backhanded assholeish-ness that infiltrated my inbox from day one on OkCupid. I felt bad enough going online to date in the first place, but the influx of negs made me feel worse. It made me feel like I was not a man, and I estimate to the people sending the messages, I wasn't. I was a profile. Maybe I am being overly sensitive! However, the desire to demean someone and the desire to date her are, I think, mutually exclusive. I could be wrong about that, though, since I am just a woman.

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It did not start out so poorly. My friend Jenna came over on a Wednesday night, because it was February first, and we decided that something like this should occur on a first day of the month. We poured ourselves glasses of wine and set about describing ourselves in the best, most attractive, most unique, most intriguing ways we maybe could. We were true, however. Mainly. I mean, yes, technically I am five-eleven and also a half, but I'm not going to round up to six feet online, am I? Is this what men are thinking when they list their heights as five-ten even though you understand, in your heart, that they're five-seven? But in reverse? Goddammit. This is the reason why online dating is horrible.

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