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The list continues. For the record, none of these messages garnered a answer. None of these messages even garnered a half-second's consideration of a reply. I know this was a surprise to many of these messages' writers, since I really could see them returning to my profile for days later, checking to see if I Had been online. ( in case you haven't gotten the hint yet, online dating is creepy and frightening.) Prior to OkC, I never got the feeling that anyone who was being mean to me was struggling under the impression that doing this would give me a surprising and inexplicable desire to drop my trousers. Ribbing, certain---where would I be without ribbing as flirtation approach?---but nothing on the amount of the backhanded assholeish-ness that infiltrated my inbox from day one on OkCupid. I felt bad enough going online to date in the very first place, but the inflow of negs made me feel worse. It made me feel like I was not a person, and I guess to the people sending the messages, I wasn't. I was a profile. Maybe I am being too sensitive! But the urge to demean someone and the desire to date her are, I believe, mutually exclusive. I could be wrong about that, though, since I am just a woman.

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So I'm not sorry. I 'm, nevertheless, interested in the betterment of mankind. I'm interested in historical records on a few of the very pressing issues of our time. I'm interested in the grouping and analysis of little catastrophes. So I Have thought of a few groups of messages which you're liable to receive if you find yourself being concurrently female and in possession of an online dating profile. May God have mercy on our souls, and may whoever invented the backhanded compliment as flirting approach (damn you, popular MTV pickup artist Enigma!) be slowly roasted in a stew of his own fedoras, watched over by the legions of women who must make an effort to determine why this individual who apparently wants to date them only called them pretty but not in an intimidating manner."

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Look, I understand it isn't simple out there for men, either. (Is not it? I think it really could be. Easier, anyhow. Less horrifying.) For some reason it seems like standard operating procedure, among those with opposite-sex interests, that GUYS message GIRLS and that is that. I believe this is on the way out, but it's lingering. So guys have some pressure---they're the ones who have to make a move" and then only wait while my buddies and I gasp and laugh and email each other the entire rubbish they have only sent us. I would feel awful, except that the authors of the messages that provoke that sort of reaction most certainly do not give a fuck. You know how I know? Because they sent that same precise masturbatory-butt message to me AND two of my friends. Word. For. Word.

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But that first night was great. I had myself signed in to chat accidentally, because I did not even realize it was there. When a small message popped right up in the bottom right hand corner of my screen saying Hello, tall girl," I cried. I checked out the profile of the guy who had messaged me---tall, dorky, kind of funny---and though I didn't locate him all that attractive, I impulsively decided to chat with him anyhow. He was a boy who wanted to talk to me! On the first day of online dating, that is sort of all you really desire. I really don't even know what we talked about. I believe I was simply overwhelmed by how much it took me back to middle school, flirting (well, talking) with boys on AIM for the very first time. It didn't matter what he looked like (or what I look like, for that matter), or if we had anything in common, or what we were even talking about. He was a boy. Talking to me. On the INTERNET.

It did not start out so badly. My buddy Jenna came over on a Wednesday night, because it was February first, and we decided that something like this should happen on a first day of the month. We poured ourselves glasses of wine and set about describing ourselves in the best, most attractive, most unique, most interesting ways we possibly could. We were true, however. Largely. I mean, yes, technically I am five-eleven and a half, but I am not going to round up to six feet online, am I? Is this what men are thinking when they list their heights as five-ten even though you know, in your heart, that they are five-seven? However, in reverse? Goddammit. This is the reason why online dating is terrible.

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