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Also an observation I Have made now that I Have scrolled down and read the majority of the remarks. I see a reoccurring theme. Most of the opinions by guys appear to be similar or corroborate each other in some way but yet even the most outspoken guy remarking about how much worse they think online dating is for men vs women will still acknowledge that it is not all cake and ice cream for women either. On the surface this may not appear significant or conclusive in anyway but it's a common theme I see every time gender is discussed from the net to the news to real life...that women have absolutely ZERO ability to empathize with guys. ZERO............................ I see guys on here, like myself, opening their souls upward talking about how their self esteem was destroyed by being completely blown off by the opposite sex and the only female responses are to either attack them or just ignore what his concerns are and talk over him with their own perceived issue that in their head is worse............................. Hereis the thing tho. While getting a bunch of e-mails from men you don't find appealing could most definitely be annoying (tho, I'm not certain what is so difficult about using filters or simply deleting the offending messages) you can not possibly sit there with a straight face and objectively believe that is on the same identical plain of sucking as being dismissed like you're invisible. Free Sex Dating Near Me Floradale Ontario. The belief that those 2 problems are equal is absolutely laughable and makes it clear that the folks who do consider they are have no objective perspective of truth outside of their own egocentric head and notions.................................. I mean I am glad you've had it so good in your life that you literally can not comprehend what it is like to feel as if you're invisible but scroll down and read what us men are telling you point blank over and over again and give that small light bulb over your head an opportunity to twist itself in. You might learn something. Apart from that if you're a female and every post by a man here just angers you as well as makes you want to phone the guy a pathetic failure or "creep" then I propose to you that you may be a sociopath.........................striving to put a line of intervals between each paragraph so this site doesn't reformat it into another wall of words like my last post.
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